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Age 28 – Kraaifontein
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Age 51 – Blouberg
divorced, fun, flirty n bored 😉 just looking for someone who wants to laugh, flirt, maybe more 😘
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Age 25 – Maitland
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Age 48 – Bellville
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Interested in: Toys, talking dirty, meeting up
Age 32 – Woodstock
Recently single & living that free life. I’ve always been into mature women. U ladies just know how 2 handle a man. I’m tall, tatted, and very respectful… unless u want otherwise 😏
Interested in: Discreet meetups, threesomes, domination
Age 54 – Camps Bay
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Interested in: Foreplay, long chats, public fun
Age 30 – Khayelitsha
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